All marriages have their troubles. some more than others with factors such as an affair, death of a loved one, a severe illnesses. most marriages will make it through but others will not. for any marriage that face such troubles counseling can help.

All marriages have their troubles. some more than others with factors such as an affair, death of a loved one, a severe illnesses. most marriages will make it through but others will not. for any marriage that face such troubles counseling can help.

Every marriage is unique, and the way each couple deals with issues and troubles will be unique. But there are signs that each couple should know to be able to stop trouble before its to late. the sooner you recognize that trouble is brewing the better your odds of saving your relationship.

These are A few signs of a marriage headed for trouble.

You may Nag, Nit Pick, And Bicker all the time.

You bring up the negative to hurt each other in fights.

The couple tends to spend a good deal of time apart, doing activities separately because that is more fun than spending time together.

You never sit and talk as a couple about your problems, like children or house hold issues.

Long term goals as a family may be different, and you can no longer agree as a couple on what is the best direction for the family.

There is little or no Intimacy in the relationship.

you no longer talk to one another. As a couple you no longer know what is going on in each others lives.

For any of the issues above and others, marriage counseling can help. There should be no reason for any one to stay in an unhappy marriage, but not giving counseling a try before a separation or divorce just isn't giving your marriage a fair chance.

Professional marriage counselors have experience in working with couples who have gone through all types of difficulties. Counselors can assist couples in dealing with infidelity, spending issues, problems with family and children, differences in faith, and much more.

For couples who seek marriage counseling they can expect to learn:

How to resolve conflict through effective listening

How to state needs clearly and openly without anger or resentment

How to get what you need in a relationship, with on demands

How to work through unresolved issues in the marriage

How to understand the needs of both members of the couple--and how to meet those needs

To save your relationship it is best to seek counseling at the first sign of trouble, the longer a couple waits to get help the harder it becomes to resolve issues.